Attracting the wrong people

Each and every experience in your life, including the people you “run into”, is brought to you by the forces of the Law of Attraction. So what does this mean in the subject of relationships?  Why are your attracting the wrong people when you know very well that is NOT what you want? 

Well, dear friends, we must tell you that those of you who seem to keep on attracting the “wrong” kind of people are doing so by the power of your focus, of your attention.

You see, the Universe is always on, the Universe is always listening, and the Universe feels your vibration and matches it with similar and more realistic, and more intense vibrations of the same.  But the Universe will not stop to think whether you meant to say youlike it or not, it can only sense that you are focusing precious energy on something and thus, being the God that you are, it must be given.

And we hear you say “But I am clear about this. I DO NOT WANT to ever again be involved with people like so and so.  This is NOT what I want.”  And the energy, the weight value, that you are giving to those thoughts is so much stronger than the energy you place on your wants.  And so, your signal is so much stronger about what you really don’t want.

Your beliefs are stronger than anything. And a belief is only a thought that has been practiced long enough.  We would like to help you in your efforts to a more fulfilling creation, and so we lovingly recommend that you start by changing your thoughts so that eventually you can change your beliefs.

And so, if you believe that you are always attracting the wrong people into your life, we would suggest you begin by softening that thought. We would suggest you start thinking something like this:  “I have learned so much from all these people that have come into my life experience.  Knowing them has helped me define all the wonderful things that I want to experience.  I appreciate their presence in my life.  I am such an amazing attractor!  I have attracted these experiences by the focus of my attention.  I now want to think about how wonderful it would be to be surrounded by people who like _____, or I love talking to people that have an interest on ______.  How amazing my life is! I appreciate all the people that are already in my life. They are all creators just like me.  I am learning so much from them.  I will look for good things about them and will continue dreaming of what I want to manifest…. and so on and so forth.

The trick here is to raise your vibration by lowering the resistance you have created towards attracting the “right” people into your life experience.  Meditate every day – every morning if possible. And make it a habit to look for reasons to appreciate.  Make it a habit to look for thoughts or memories that feel better, that help you feel good.  We can tell you now that you can change your manifestations by changing your point of attraction.

Let your point of attraction be your joy. Let it be your dreams, your wants, and not your “don’t wants”.